5 Tips For When Sex With Your Partner Becomes Boring
Sexologist, Trina Read’s mission is to show couples how to have fun and meaningful sex. Here, she answers a readers question:
"Sex with my husband is boring, so boring in fact that I don’t care if I ever have sex again. Any suggestions?"
The simplest solution would be to do something different and if you’re not sure where to start here are five easy ideas.
1. Start With Fantasy
Each day give yourself a few minutes to fantasise about a sexy experience you might want to try. Stimulating your mind through active recall will activate your sexual desire.
2. Introduce Spontaneity
Occasionally surprise your partner with something new. Initiate sex at a different time of day, in a different place, or in a different position than usual.
Throw in a flirty message when texting, emailing or calling. Tell them you’re fantasising about them, ask what they’re wearing, or tease them with what you will do to them that evening.
4. Get touchy-feely with your skin
Waking up your skin will increase your sensuality. You can even do this on the way home from work by gently caressing the inside of your wrist or behind your ears.
5. Do something (anything) different
Get out of the house and do something fun together. It’s so much easier to feel sexy when we don’t feel bogged down by routine-rut.
Bonus Sex Tip:
Trying new things will release dopamine into your brain giving you a ‘zing’ like when you first met each other.
Best selling author, sex coach, international speaker, spokeswoman, newspaper and magazine columnist, Sexologist, Trina Read’s mission is to show couples how to have fun and meaningful sex. Trina devotes her writing time to her numerous websites, many women’s magazines, and syndicated mommy sex blog. Her books include, Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible; as well as, Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex: Volumes I, II & III.