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13 Things Every Mom Should Know About Good Sleeping Habits

Sleep: One of those things that we never really appreciated enough before motherhood came along and stole it from us! So how does a mom go about getting enough sleep to get by on?

Establishing good sleep habits and routine for your child is the best place to start.

Here are 13 tips to get you started:

  1. Sleep is vital for physical and emotional well being

  2. Sleep deprivation has been used for centuries as a form of torture, yet countless parents of young children endure this on a daily basis!

  3. Helping your child to develop and maintain good, healthy sleep habits will last a life time; and ensure the period of sleep deprivation lasts no longer than absolutely necessary.

  4. Also, having a realistic expectation of what to expect during the early weeks, and months, will help you, as a parent, cope better with lack of sleep

  5. During the first three months; expect to suffer from some sleep deprivation!

  6. A new born baby may wake frequently for feeding. During the first few weeks this could be anywhere between 2-3 hours. Gradually the length of time between feeds will lengthen.

  7. It is important to understand the cycles of sleep, as this will help you predict when your child may wake and how to prevent it.

  8. A sleep cycle is divide into Light and Deep sleep.

  9. Deep Sleep is when we sleep soundly and recharge our batteries.

  10. Light Sleep is when your baby/toddler will waken easily by a sudden noise and movement.

  11. During a sleep cycle, your baby/toddler will pass from drowsy to light and into deep sleep. The cycle then starts again.

  12. A baby’s sleep cycle lasts approx 45 minutes. This increases to 90-100 minutes in adulthood.

  13. During a full nights sleep, your baby/toddler will pass through sleep cycles many times. However your baby/toddler may not yet have developed the ability to link sleep cycles together.

Top tips:

If you need to move your baby/toddler when he falls asleep, move him during the middle 20-25 minutes of the sleep cycle. Moving him during the first 10-15 minutes after he falls asleep may result in him waking up again. This is a common cause of waking upon your baby/toddler being placed in the cot when he falls asleep firstly in your arms.

It can be very tempting to try and throw yourself and your baby into a rigid routine. However this does not meet your individual baby’s needs and can cause further stress for your baby and you. By meeting your baby’s needs for sleep, you are helping him to feel secure thus leading to long term positive, good sleep habits.

The secret to ensuring your baby/toddler develops good long term sleep habits is to get off on the right foot from the very beginning. Follow these few steps to get you on the right path:

  • Ensure your baby/toddler gets enough sleep during the day in the form of naps when he needs to and as much as he needs

  • Establish a sleep zone

  • Establish a consistent bedtime routine

  • Put your baby/toddler to bed when drowsy but still awake

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About the Author

Fiona O’Farrell is a Paediatric Occupational Therapist, specialising in baby development, premature babies and is an experienced sleep consultant, validated by the department of health. For information on workshops and sleep consultations visit or Facebook. Call Fiona on 0879144323


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Alix Howard
My now 2 year old since January has started to wake at 1:30am every night crying and tries anything and everything to get into my bed. She has never slept in my bed. She is no longer on her soother as she stopped wanting it. I leave it in cot just incase but she never asks. She has a security blanket she sleeps with all the time too. I'm at my whits end now, any advice? Please and thank you in advance!
28/04/2017 02:56:02

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