Hi twinem,
Congratulations first of all!
Typing here with a baby in my arms asleep so excuse the spelling etc!
I'm sorry to hear what you are going through with your babies, I hope they are doing well in the Nic unit now you are a few weeks on.
My b/g twins were born at 28+4 in February (waters broke at 27 wks and lasted 10 days in hospital) so I know exactly what you are going through so I hope I can help. Both were on ventilators, then cpap, had collapsed lungs, minor brain bleeds and blood transfusions etc. Much of which is so common with premies. All i can say is that I know how hard it is to head in and out of the nic unit every day. Mine were in for 7 weeks and are 22 weeks old now and are thriving. They are my first babies too.
Please pm me if you want to chat or if I can help. I hope you and your babies are doing ok xx